As much as we would love to, we do not actually have the authority to forgive. We can only ask to be forgiven. I say this because inherent in forgiving others is the assumption that we have been wronged and they have wronged us. In order for that to be true, we have to judge other people’s behavior. The Bible says judge not lest ye be judged; therefore, we cannot judge and we cannot forgive. However, look first to your own perception when you judge that you have been wronged. Oftentimes, we have done something wrong within the context as well. Thus, we should ask for forgiveness before assuming that we have the moral right to forgive others. In other words, a necessary condition for us to forgive someone else is a judgment that they have done something wrong. Rather, I would suggest blessing someone who you perceive to have done some wrong to you because ultimately you played a substantial part in them wronging you so you have no right to judge, and no right to forgive. The judgment is always a subjective thing and often it comes from selfish motives on the part of the one doing the judging and thinking that they have been wronged. Thus, it becomes personal and we need to ask forgiveness for being selfish long before we assume that someone who has wronged us needs forgiven. To say that we can forgive is to say that it is okay for us to judge. It is not okay. In fact, we are almost constantly wronging others ourselves; in that wronging we lose the authority to judge and forgive. This may seem counterintuitive but all I am saying is look to yourself and your own salvation before assuming someone else is wrong because that is a value judgment and not fair to anyone.
Jesus is the only human with the definite ability to forgive. That is because he never wronged anyone and so was blameless. That gives him a position of authority in which he can forgive others where we cannot. Perhaps we need to seek forgiveness from Jesus and then put the other person’s forgiveness in His righteous and capable hands. After all, that is what His death on the cross did. It legitimized Him as Lord and he punctuated that legitimization by way of His Resurrection. Thus, His death awarded us ultimate and all encompassing forgiveness. He imparted this forgiveness and ultimate salvation to us even as we slaughtered Him like the perfect Lamb that He was. So, technically, we no longer even need forgiveness. It has been accomplished for us; so, live free and clear. However, we still need to work for others’ salvation and bring them into the pasture of love with us, bring them into the Kingdom of Perfection with us, even as Jesus brought us in. We can work our own salvation and forgiveness in that way and by praying and being covered in the blood of Jesus by way of unwavering faith. When become free and clear, we can then impart that freedom to others, as Jesus brought it to us by His death on the cross.
Knowledge is power because it gives you a reason and purpose to righteously act and the ability to defend those actions with meaning. Knowledge defends the possessor against naïve ignorance and arms you against it. Knowledge in this sense is holy as it leads to a deeper sense of true understanding. The power one gains from knowledge is one of purpose and direction. Knowledge enlightens and proceeds to spread whether good or evil. The power also gained from knowledge can be good or evil or used for good or evil. The power is not attached to good or evil so both good and evil that comes from knowledge’s power comes from the same source – the mind of man. Thus, the true battle is one of deep understanding – the understanding and compassion a “good” man has in understanding an “evil” man. Without that understanding of good for evil or for evil of good, all is lost. That is man’s role in the universe – unequivocal, unjudging understanding. If he can accomplish that, he has surpassed and entered nirvana.
I kicked the hole in the door but my kid brother bravely claimed responsibility for it. He said something awful to me and he knew it. When I was young, I had been sexually abused by a baby sitter. My brother, whom by my telling probably escaped the worst of it, made the mistake of saying, during a rather heated argument about God-knows-what, probably over who would do what chore when during the summer, that I liked being abused and enjoyed the adverse attention from the baby sitter. The baby sitter was an overweight, pudgy, middle aged man with droopy glasses. He was actually technically the baby sitter’s husband but he did help in “caring” for the children. Technically, his wife was the one watching us. I was four when that happened. I was the hero because I told on him and saved my brother from having to endure the same sweet torture at his fleshy hands. The argument over chores occurred years later. I think I was just shy of twelve at the time. My brother said what he said and then immediately and with haste retreated to his room and locked the door. I think he knew I would be livid enough to do real harm. He was right. When I tried to get in his room, it was locked so I kicked the door, putting a hole in the wood at the bottom. When my dad saw the hole after a hard day at work that evening, I knew I had done something unforgivable but my brother lied and said he did it after accidentally locking himself out. I could not believe it when he spoke up like that. My dad got angry anyway but my brother took the beating without protest and thusly became my hero.
There is no such thing as true selflessness. Even while the good Samaritan feeds the homeless, it is likely to assuage the guilt he or she has because of the simple fact that he or she is more fortunate. It gives them license to amass more. Fate picks people to bring down in a very fickle manner. We must exercise godly grace to pick them back up, regardless of our underlying true reasons.
Do not even acknowledge evil or the devil; for, when you do, that is where they get their powers. Use grace to deal with adversity without acknowledging the potential evil of the situation. Jesus taught us that by example when, while being arrested, he healed a man wounded by his own disciple before they took Him away. So, know your fate and meet it with grace, and without resentment. Band together like brothers and sisters if you must; for, we are stronger together and can, thereby, defy evil. So, be social; be gracious; be forgiving; be accepting. Together we can withstand the devil, and create opportunities for grace to operate.
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One should not seek to be understood but to understand others. Seeking to be understood is selfish and self-centered; while seeking to understand someone else and their situation while sacrificing your own needs to be understood is altruistic. You do not get any payout when you seek to understand others but you do gather relevant information that can be used at a later date to understand commonalities in the human existence and condition and the various variations in that existence and condition. That way you can be a better, more conscientious person and that is a positive payout and selfish gain in and of itself.
Being altruistic is actually selfish in a good way because it makes you feel better after you have helped someone out of the kindness of your heart. If someone is truly seeking selfish motives, altruism can really give the self a good feeling. Therefore, altruism is in some ways a positive form of selfishness.
As we learn and grow and develop throughout our lifetimes, certain behaviors became inherent because they get reinforced, whether by society or by someone other force. Nobody in their right mind would do something if there was no reward. I believe the good feeling one gets from altruistic behaviors is God blessing and reinforcing the good behavior. Plus, there also may be an evolutionary reason people feel good about helping each other. In other words, when we help out someone else in the group, the whole group is more likely to survive. Thus, over evolutionary time, our brains began to develop so that certain behaviors were rewarded intrinsically, like altruistic behavior.
So, if you really are looking to be selfish, try to help someone out; that is as selfish as you can get because the payout and blessings are amazing. You won’t regret your sacrifice.
All we are is a bunch of hamsters on our own personal wheels. It is like the rat race, only eternal and without any real movement. We end up going nowhere, all the while telling ourselves, “someday I will get there.” The ones that see the irony and its depressive nature are the ones that get told that there is something wrong with them because they shatter the false dream of progress that the rest of us hold dear to while running on our wheels going nowhere. And, those who get off their wheels are considered absolutely out of their minds, but they in fact are the visionaries, the ones who are truly liberated, the ones trying to figure a way out of their very cages. Thus, these ones are considered dangerous when in fact they are closer to the truth; however, truth by its very nature is often considered dangerous even while liberating in nature. These ones have put the illusion of life and “progress” behind themselves, while everyone else calls their running on their wheels and never getting anywhere progress. The saddest part about this is that there is no way outside the cages of life except through death and danger. Even if one of us hamsters managed to get out of the “cage”, what he or she would find is endless chances at self-destruction and nothing but confusion. So keep running on your wheels; at least, you will have direction and a false sense of progress and peace.
In the end, the cross became a stepping stone, as well as a rolling one. As death became life, life became free.
When the stone was rolled from the tomb that Sunday after the execution exactly three days later, one could, if one looked in the right place, indeed find a snake, orange-yellow with black diamonds tattooed on its back, crushed by said stone. Its tongue no longer flicked in and out of its poison mouth but was, instead, still and silent.
That is where she found it when she came to the place where death still ruled in her heart.
That is why she did not even see the man sitting in the tomb at first; and why, even when he registered, she recognized him, wrongly, as the caretaker.
When the scene, reflected on several times, finally hit home and made sense, a smile filled her face. She put her hands on her hips and shifted her weight a couple of times.
She said, “You sonuvabitch! You did it, didn’t you?”
The man in the tomb wore an enlightened and pained expression turned pleased. He shrugged and looked away.